so it's okay to work with someone and, you know, have coffee with them. but when it gets personal it becomes a bit weird. people haven't really tried the closeness like touch you, live with you, eat with you kind of a thing. that's what they find a bit uncomfortable for some. >> some blacks don't like whites and some whites don't like blacks, but they hope that will change. >> one of our friends was watching the table in front of him. who knows what, whites, blacks, calendacolors all having a good. [♪ singing ] >> the ban on mixed marriages was eventually scrapped.